Small Black Women Owned Preppy Businesses

I had little to no intention to post Black Friday deals since a lot of the list I’ve seen contain overlap. However, one thing that none of these list seem to include are types of businesses that I make every effort to frequent when I get the opportunity; small businesses owned by black women who just so happen to be preppy. Because they are few and far between, I would love to introduce you to some of my favorites that  I would actually be shopping with, whether or not they were have a deal. I also included a few folks who may not check all of the boxes but do beautiful work.

Small Black Women Owned Preppy Businesses

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Culture Fit Clothing Active Wear for the Culturally Conscious Woman 30% off site wide with code BFCM18

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The Tiny Tassel 30% off with Code “Thankfulfortassels” I’m obviously bias to Tiny Tassel because I consider its lovely owner, Mimi, a friend after all this time but I love what she does and the quality of her pieces are next to none and home made.

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Effies Paper Company 25% off site wide no promo needed

Small Women Owned Preppy Businesses

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Janet Hill Studios 20% off prints with code “BLACKFRIDAY” at checkout If you follow my instastories then you have seen me obsess over this lady’s work recently. Her swoon-worthy preppy scapes give me heart palpitations. I purchased four prints for myself today during her sale including the one above.

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Society Social Up to $750 off best selling styles. No Promo necessary.

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Katie Kime 30% off site wide with code MERRY30 – This wallpaper is stellar and looks exactly like the style that we went for our own bedroom.

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Caitlin Wilson Design save 15% with code BF15 site wide

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Elizabeth Wilson Designs 20% off with Code FRIYAY. Get the cape coat. Just look at how cute it is

Small Preppy Businesses

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Arnold Steiner offering 15% off your first order on the site- Arnold is hands down one of our favorite shops and people. The pieces are quality and the owner, gentlemanly. You will have zero regrets buying from him.

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Kiel James Patrick 25% off site wide with code COZYCABIN

Preppy Businesses

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J. Crew 50% off everything with code “Everything”

J. Crew Factory 40-50% off sitewide

Artfully Walls 30% off everything BLACKFRIDAY2018

L.L. Bean 20% off Clothing and Outwear  with code THANKS20 and 25% off bean boots with code BOOT25

Landsend 50% off full price styles and men’s and women’s flannels for $20

I pray this list was useful to you guys and that you have a fun and safe time shopping today, be it at home or in store.  Just be mindful that today is one of the worse days of the year in retail for retail workers. They are doing long hours with often terrible operating technology which goes down from time to time all while battling people’s bad attitudes. So please be kind while you’re out and about. Happy hunting,

XO Prepford Wife

Sail to Sable Dress

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Dress // Thrifted head scarf // older purse (similar)// J. Crew factory denim jacket

 

Sail to Sable makes an out of this world shift dress. I wore this navy and white sun blocked shift dress around town yesterday and loved it. Though it’s shorter and tighter than I would ordinary choose, I’m a sucker for a sharp and flattering neckline and a classic color palette so this will definitely live on in my closet for a years to come. I paired it with some of my favorite J. Crew pieces, a denim jacket and a basket clutch and some nude Talbots sandals for a comfortable, no muss preppy look. Perfect for the island.

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Another Day, Another Rain Boot

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Jacket | Shirt | Skirt | Boots

For Christmas I only requested rain gear for days such as today. I will happily pair my rain gear even with work clothes. Such is the fate of this happy little pair of purple rain boots.

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I think there is a way to be dressed professionally even when wearing rubber wellies. I start with a professional and darn near stern base. Queue layered tweed. Tweed skirt, tweed jacket and a dark blouse with a high and conservative neck like this black jewel studded collared shirt from vintage J. Crew. Make sure to wear leggings to leave very little skin exposed and to avoid a chill.

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I caution against this outfit if your workplace is formal or if you meet with different external conservative parties but otherwise, go for it. It’s perfect for a casual, and yet rainy, Friday. I use to wear these boots all the time when I worked in sales. My customers would get a kick out of a full suit, a striped tshirt, and a pair of Hunter boots. While it was stylish and cute, it was also just practical since I would be hoping in and out of the car all day in pouring rain. As with the red pair of boots from my last post, these boots have a wider calf. They’re the purple adjustable back boots to allow me more space to wear pants if I want to.

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So what about you? Are you into work clothes meets casual?

A Hint of Pink, I Think.

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“There’s no such thing as bad weather, only unsuitable clothing.” – Alfred Wainwright

I’ve lived my life by this quote for so long. Bad weather is the perfect opportunity to demonstrate personal style. With the creation of colorful wellies. There is never a time where I dress for rain or snow where I don’t get the best compliments. Because even in this weather my own style is apparent.

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Today it rained and I could. not. wait. to leave the house because finally, finally I could use this umbrella I got for Christmas (thank you sister in law who listens when I speak), these rain boots (thank you husband who also listens) and this Stutterheim x Madewell jacket that I scored for the low, low price of $20 at a J. Crew warehouse sale.

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I love this jacket because while I have a full dress under it, I didn’t have to. I will probably just pair it with boots for rainy days where I want to go to the grocery store dressed like a hermit. Honestly that’s why I own a lot of the long coats I own, even though we live in North Carolina where the weather is mostly temperate. It even has a deep hood to fit my bun, a crucial measure for what jacket makes the cut. I love it even more since its pink which has been my favorite color to wear for some time now. It just adds to my “girlish charm” even though I’m a grown woman now.

 

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Even though I have several pairs of Hunter boots at this point. I always come back to the red ones. These are the Huntress model which has a wider calf diameter which I need if I’m going to wear them with pants. It’s also slightly short which works out nicely since I am a munchkin. I usually pair these the same way with black and white for a pop of color or with all monochrome of a color like here. The Hunter boots are totally worth the cost. I have yet to have any sort of damage to mine *knock on wood*. As long as you get the buffer spray to maintain the shiny gloss, you should be good to go. I would caution you though, these are definitely rain boots and not all weather boots. I don’t care what other blogger say, adding those boots socks does not a winter boot make. Still, totally my favorite weather shoe.

 

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Do you have Hunter boots? If so, what color did you snag? *Asking for a friend who is me*

XO PrepFord Wife

Openness and Accountability

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I tend to think of myself as a bit of a loner. While I am talkative and bubbly and easy to get to know, I hold my true feelings close to my chest and say very little of substance unless prodded for the truth. But I do a really good job of pretending. What that looks like in execution is that I am everyone’s best friend. I am literally the best friend you will ever have. I tend to go above the call of duty because my assumption is that if I do everything right and never fall short that will make people love me. And it does. It’s worked for years. From a strictly unbiased perspective this has been my life.

But a year ago, I started to think about who was my best friend; who would I call if I had a flat tire or a rough day or whose sofa would I crash on if I got into a fight with my husband. And I drew a blank. But then I thought of the number of people who would call me if any of the above happened to them and instantly I had a list of over 20 people. And you know what, some of that is my own fault.

I make it my mission in life to put my best foot forward, to only let people see me at my best, to only show my face when I am happy. As a woman in this world, particularly as a black woman, we don’t exactly have a lot of space to emote. There is no prize for vulnerability. To be less than graceful and gracious is a sin, and god forbid you express negative emotions like anger and grief. So I stored those emotions away even from those closest to me. People who I knew like the back of my own hand but knew nothing about me.

I was the no must, no fuss bride. The “it’s okay you forgot my birthday” friend. The you-don’t-need-to-call-me-regularly daughter. I was hiding parts (read: gaping geysers) of myself from people and in turn, could not hold people accountable for how I wanted to be treated because they didn’t know how I wanted to be treated.

So this year, the goal was “openness”. Every year, I  chose a word, a part of my personality that I want to be working on. This year was openness. I would work on being vulnerable, exposing myself a little more to family, to the friends who have known me for twenty years, to my husband but to work friends and even to myself.

There is something to be said about vulnerability and letting people learn you after so much time. That sort of exposure has been difficult and muddy and hard to navigate through especially in the face of not explaining to people why they are suddenly getting a lot more information about me than they’re use to. But I want to be known. I want the people in my life to know my heart as well as I know theirs. I want to be able to hold people accountable for how they love me and that starts with holding myself accountable for letting them. So my word for 2018 is not just openness but accountability.